Pair dynamic
Visualist+Intuist
= Complement
Different channels, same room. You cover each other's blind spots.
The dynamic
The Surface-and-Substance Split
The Visualist clocked that the kitchen got rearranged. The Intuist clocked that something was off about the host. Both of you were right, and neither of you reads the other's evidence as evidence. So you spend dinner correcting each other's read of the same room.
The 30-second move
On the drive home, take turns: Visualist names three things they saw, Intuist names three things they felt. No one defends, no one argues. Just stack the data. You'll find you went to two different parties tonight, and both were real.
One-pagers